Lisa Desatnik
Please Support This Petition For The Appalachian Festival
A really good thing for Greater Cincinnati is its most popular outdoor spring family festival, the Appalachian Festival at Coney Island Mother’s Day weekend. It re-creates authentic mountain life with down-home music, heel-to-toe dancing, storytelling, food, and crafts.
For those who know me, you know I’ve been working on the Appalachian Festival for over 20 years (started as a baby). I look forward to it. Last year REALLY hurt organizers when it had to be cancelled for the first time ever due to rain. So, I’ve created this petition asking for sunshine. Please help us keep Cincinnati’s popular spring family festival around by adding your name or liking the petition that is on the Appalachian Festival Facebook page.
Here is a link.
Solving Pet Parrot Phobic Behavior – Positively
NOTE: I have a new pet behavior blog located at http://www.SoMuchPETential.com/blog. Thanks!
Note: This is a past column from my Hyde Park Living pet behavior column.
Every once in awhile you have the opportunity to read about my personal stories as they pertain to modifying pet behaviors in the most positive, least intrusive ways. I’ve been studying this for nearly four years now. Not only has it completely changed my relationship with my three parrots, I find it absolutely fascinating.
This month, I will focus on fear. With birds especially, I’ve often heard people talk of their pet’s sudden neurotic, phobic behaviors. Out of the blue, for no apparent reason, their loving companion will scream, lunge or try to escape the hands that up until that moment had only been associated with positive things.
I know about this, unfortunately, from firsthand knowledge. My loving Barnaby Timneh African Grey, who normally would be very happy spending his entire day with his face pressed against mine (of course it would have to be with the occasional play break), would suddenly ‘out of the blue’ panic when he stepped onto my arm. He’d scream with horror in his voice, breathe heavily, and then take off. If you’ve ever experienced the unconditional love of an animal, you can probably understand it is completely heartbreaking when you are thrust into the portrayal of some evil monster – and you don’t even know why.
Each time it would happen with Barnaby, I’d have to go through a systematic desensitization plan to help him overcome his anxiety. Because we have a long history of trust, we were able to work through this fairly quickly, but my training taught me there had to be a reason for this reoccurring behavior. And there also had to be a way of eliminating or minimizing the frequency of it. Behavior, I know, doesn’t ever happen willy nilly. It is always triggered by something in the environment. And the consequences of that behavior are what either maintains, builds or extinguishes it.
Hmm. Actually it became fairly easy to figure out once I put on my behavior analysis hat.
There is a window in the birds’ room that faces the street. On sunny days, when a car drives past, the light that reflects from the metal and glass makes a brilliant pass from one wall to the next. A pretty scary demon to a Timneh teddy bear no longer than a ruler. If my neighbor parks her car in a certain spot at a certain time of day and Barnaby happens to be way up high, that same evil light hovers. Each time that Barnaby jumped on my arm, only to be terrified, that same ‘trigger’ light just happened to be coming from the street.
My mentor and teacher, Dr. Susan Friedman – a respected psychologist and behaviorist – helped me to understand. Purely based on my poor timing, in Barnaby’s mind, I got associated with the light. And that was not a good thing to be paired with.
Barnaby had two types of behaviors going on. One was an automatic, involuntary response to a bright light (panic scream, escape). In scientific terminology, this is called an unconditioned or respondent behavior because it wasn’t something that Barnaby learned in the way that he came to know stepping up generally meant only good things would follow. On the other hand, his stepping up behavior is most definitely learned. Scientists call that operant learning.
Now, think of the use of a clicker. The clicker in and of itself is meaningless to an animal. It only acquires value to that animal when a good trainer repeatedly pairs the sound with a treat. Then the click acquires reinforcing value.
This same type of association was going on with Barnaby, only it was a negative one. Being on my arm – something that had always given him positive reinforcement in the past – when the light (remember, something that causes an unconditioned fear response) came through the window, was being paired with that fear response. Just as the words ‘good boy’ have become associated with safflower seeds, his being on my arm had become associated with that awful light.
Once this became clear, working toward a solution really wasn’t that difficult. What I learned from Susan (and so many great people on Susan’s international parrot behavior listserve) is how to modify Barnaby’s environment so as to set him up for success. When I’m working from home, I try to remember to close their shade at a certain time. But if the shade is up, and there is that dangerous light outside (at least in his eyes), I absolutely will not pick him up. Instead, he’s learned to go inside his cage at that time. That one small adjustment has meant the difference between a pet who became instantly phobic of me – on a more frequent basis – to one who hasn’t exhibited those behaviors once since I figured it all out. So, it really wasn’t just some irrational fear after all.
This isn’t to say that something else in the future may pop up, that will cause that same fear response. Barnaby is a living being, and, as life goes, behaviors evolve all the time to adapt to the environment. But next time, I’m going to be better equipped to send those awful monsters packing so Barnaby can just focus on having fun.
Actor Danny Woodburn – Thanks For Being You!
Have you ever tried to interview a good friend who you really admire? A friend who you want to write about because you feel like the world should know what a great person he is? A friend who you start talking to about one subject and then find yourself going in a million tangents because conversation is just so easy?
Well, that has happened to me. And unfortunately with our busy schedules, when I couldn’t get in the questions I really wanted to ask Danny in our 40 minute time allotment, we just haven’t been able to reconnect. But I want to boast about Danny and I want to do it while you still have time to go to the theatre and see him on the big screen as Grimm in Mirror, Mirror. So…here goes.
I’m talking about Danny Woodburn – a funny, brilliant, quick-on-his-toes, loyal person who anyone would be proud to know. He is a gifted actor and comedian who became widely recognized after playing the role of Mickey, Kramer’s friend on the NBC hit sitcom Seinfeld. But he has also been in so many other television shows and movies including Death to Smoochie with Robin Williams.
And, some years back, his Cincinnati fan base grew after we brought him to town to speak at the Inclusion Leadership Awards. Not a person left that evening untouched by the powerful words of Danny about what it means to be included. He is a strong voice for those who do and say things differently.
It was of no surprise to me to learn that in October, 2010, he was honored with the Screen Actors Guild Harold Russell Award in Beverly Hills for his advocacy on behalf of performers who have disabilities.
In his award acceptance, Danny had this to say…“I was told, ‘No—you can never be a truck driver, you’re arms won’t reach around the wheel. No—you can never be a doctor; people won’t take you seriously. No—you can never be a police officer.’
“I can be all of those things. I’m an actor. I can portray them in film and someone might be inspired to ignore those nos and live their own dream.”
Danny, you are so right.
His journey to television and films began as a little child. He credits his grandfather for his sense of humor. “He was a great story teller,” Danny told me, remembering the time they were sitting around the dinner table when the chair leg of his 80 something year old grandfather broke and he landed on his back on the kitchen floor. “He just looked up and said, ‘can you move the table a little closer?’”
Once Danny figured out he could make people laugh, he began acting out the lyrics to songs. In the first grade he got in trouble for instigating a chase scene around the classroom. Kids would run after him while Danny ducked and got away. It was exciting and became their daily routine. And Danny stayed after school a lot because of it.
After studying theatre at Temple University, he became a teacher for an African American youth theatre company and then used that money to move to L.A. Jobs were here and there but he was able to pay the bills. Well, he did sell cowboy boots too..and had to wear them for the job.
Eventually, people in the industry came to know him.
Fast forward to March 30, 2012.
Danny was featured in the Wall Street Journal about playing one of the dwarfs in Mirror, Mirror. In addition to Danny’s fun sense of humor, I admire him so much for his unwavering leadership when it comes to standing up for what is right and what he believes in. Of his role in Mirror, Mirror, he told the Wall Street Journal, one word almost caused him to abandon his job on the set…that word in the script was ‘midget.’ But, just as he did when he played the role of Mickey in Seinfeld, Danny used this as an opportunity to educate the filmmakers. Not only did they rewrite the script without that word, they then took elaborate steps to listen to the views of all of the actors on the set who have dwarfism.
There are a number of great lessons here – among them, don’t be afraid to speak up for what you believe in and use it as an opportunity to educate. On the other hand, think about how your words and actions are going to impact others. There is absolutely nothing wrong and everything right about asking the question if you do not know.
To my friend Danny, I have these words for you:
Thank you for making us laugh and making us cry. Thank you for educating us and giving us thought. Most of all, thanks for being you!
For radio interview with Danny 104.3 FM, please click here.
A post I wrote about Danny being in Cincinnati is at this link.
Harlem Globetrotter Alumni Helping Cincinnati Youth
Meet my newest Good Things Pledge champions….Albert Gordon, Larry Coleman, Michael Douglas, and Tyron Hollywood Brown (pictured with me).
I met them at FOX19 and these Harlem Globetrotters alumni who are now part of the Harlem Legends Basketball Entertainers are all about doing good. They are in Cincinnati to play a basketball game Thursday night at Princeton High School benefiting the Princeton High School athletic department. Funds raised will help ensure students who want to play and can benefit from sports will be able to have that opportunity. Who will their team be up against? Community and business leaders, and educators – all of whom share a common passion for wanting to help young people succeed. The game will begin at 6 p.m. at Princeton High School (11080 Chester Rd; Cincinnati, Ohio 45246). Tickets are $10 in advance or $13 at the door. For more information, please call 513-864-1500.
Are you a Good Things Pledge champion? Sure you are. We all are because we all have within ourselves the power to do and nurture good things. If you visit my Pledge page on this blog and add your name, I’ll send you a certificate.
About the Harlem Legends
The Harlem Legends Basketball Entertainers are all Harlem Globetrotters alumni who want to use their talents to bring out the best in others, especially young people.
Legend Michael Douglas began his youth foundation in 1991 to provide positive and educational activities for communities around the globe. The Michael Douglas Youth Foundation brings together motivational speakers, NBA stars, Harlem Legends members and entertainers to raise money for nonprofits and teach youth how to succeed in the game of life.
Chosen as an advocate for the President’s Fitness Challenge, the Harlem Legends will take the lead in being role models for youth and society through a variety of activities including Shoot for the Stars basketball and physical fitness camps, celebrity basketball shows and motivational programs.
“Kids are our future. They look up to professional athletes and so we want to be the best possible role models we can be. We’re all about encouraging them to follow their dreams to ensure a bright future for themselves,” Michael told me, “but we’re not just helping kids by doing this, we’re helping…period.”
A Teen’s Perspective On ‘Caring’
On April 17, 2012 Erin Daniels, a junior at North College Hill High School in Cincinnati, will be among 40 local students who will be honored by the YMCA of Greater Cincinnati as a YMCA Character Award recipient. Each of the honorees has her/her own very unique story of making a difference but what they all share is how they are role models for the character values of caring, respect, honesty and responsibility.
I was with Erin recently for a television interview and afterward asked her what it means to be ‘caring’. This is what she said.
YMCA Character Awards 2012 news release
2012 YMCA Character Award recipients 2012
The YMCA Character Awards Event will be April 17, 2012 at the School for Creative & Performing Arts. Doors open at 6 p.m. Tickets for the event are $25 for an adult or $10 for a youth. To purchase a ticket, please call 513-246-3205.
I have a few tickets to give-a-way. I will be drawing on this coming Wednesday from among my Good Things Pledge champions. Not a champion yet? It’s simple. Just visit the page and add your contact information.