quote by Lisa Desatnik: What is a memory that makes you smile? Celebrate that gift.

Celebrate A Memory

What is a memory that makes you smile? Today, celebrate that gift. Read More

Happy Holidays!

During the holiday season, I like to remind my friends, family, clients, supporters and followers how very much all of you mean to me. Thank you...to all of you for being among my gratitude list. Each of you, in your own way, adds so much value to my life.I ... Read More

In Memory Of My Mom

It has been such a long while since I have posted on my Good Things Going Around. Life has gotten in the way. One of those reasons was my dear, sweet mom’s ailing health. It began with a bad fall that among other things cracked the back of her head open causing swelling and bleeding on her brain. About nine months later she was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia. Mom always enjoyed reading my Good Things newsletters so I wanted to do a special post in her memory and honor. Read More
Cincinnati Certified Dog Trainer Lisa Desatnik with Garrett Parsons with Interfaith Hospitality Network of Greater Cincinnati

Enriching The Lives of Homeless Pets And Families

I’ve been so grateful to my friends who have been there for me during this past year with lots of personal issues including my mom's ailing health. The kindness of others has given me so much strength and I’ve been looking for a larger scale way of giving back. I’d ... Read More

Music Unites Students At Princeton

If you found a place where everyone welcomed and included you for who you are, would you want to go there? These are the first words my dear friend Sue Schindler had written for a group of Princeton High School students on the day that I visited – this past ... Read More
Emily Gear, founder of Louie's Legacy dog rescue in Cincinnati, shares her story of why she started the organization.

Louie's Legacy Is Saving Lives

It was 2009. Emily Gear was living in New York. Eight years had passed since two planes flew into the Twin Towers at the World Trade Center, causing the two tallest buildings on the globe to implode, killing nearly 3,000 people, and sending a ripple of fear, anxiety, hatred across ... Read More
Maggie's Mini Therapy Horses is a Cincinnati area nonprofit that brings miniature horses to local hospitals, retirement communities and other places.

Mini Horses That Brighten Days

It is the greatest gift when you find a path to pursue where your heart leads. Lora Melin has found that gift. Having grown up with the companionship of horses, it is perfectly perfect that for the past 12 years she has passed that love down to her daughter, Maggie. ... Read More
James Wilson of Cincinnati is known as Nati Ninja. He has competed in six American Ninja Warrior competitions.

From Track Star To Ninja Warrior

James Wilson, 33, has always been a gifted athlete. Now he is the Nati Ninja. At LaSalle High School and in college, he was a star running back in football – among the top 100 in the country. In track, his times running the 100-meter dash, 400-meter relay and 200-meter ... Read More
Blues musician Kelly Richey is a life coach and writing facilitator at Women Writing for (a) Change in Cincinnati

Kelly Richey - Healing Through Creation

For more than 30 years Kelly Richey was a touring blues artist. She shared the stage with music legends and was compared to icons Stevie Ray Vaughn and Jimi Hendrix. Practicing, promoting, recording, creating and performing required more time and more pressure than many corporate careers. Still, it wasn’t her ... Read More
Maple Knoll Village resident John Anderson enjoys volunteering. He as honored in Cincinnati with a Voices of Giving Award.

At 88, John Is Still Giving Back

At 88, John Anderson’s great joy in life comes from bringing sunshine into the life of others. His lessons of service learned through the Scouts as a child have never been forgotten. “I learned then that whenever you give to someone, you are becoming a part of that person’s life ... Read More
Joe Motz of the Motz Corporation

People Matter At The Motz Corporation

I have played my share of sports growing up. Still, I honestly never would have imagined myself getting so excited about a company that builds turf for athletic fields. But I get very excited when I think about The Motz Group (and its sister company– USGreentech, which focuses on turf ... Read More
Susan Wyder and Phyllis McKinley of The Princeton Closet

Susan Wyder: Putting Community First

written by Sue Schindler   It’s 1980. Susan Wyder is a brand new 6th grade teacher. One of her students continually vomits each morning. Susan realizes that this child is pregnant. Thirty-nine years ago, society was not as supportive to pregnant girls-especially the very young ones. The girl’s parents want ... Read More
The Rotary Club of Cincinnati recently honored Cincinnati Public School teachers for excellence.

Rotary Club Honored CPS Teachers

Teachers who know how to bring out the best in their students are incredible gifts. As they lift minds up, they foster a love for learning, often character values, and sense of worth. It was great to recently see The Rotary Club of Cincinnati honor Cincinnati Public Schools teachers who ... Read More
The Compassionate Friends provides highly personal comfort, hope, and support to every family experiencing the death of a son or a daughter, a brother or a sister, or a grandchild, and helps others better assist the grieving family.

Bringing Hope to Parents When Their Lives Collapse

Written by Sue Schindler It’s the nightmare of every parent to have the police knocking on your door-or-making that call, in the middle of the night. It’s watching your child succumb to a life-threatening illness, when you were confident that they would defeat it. It’s surreal walking in your child’s ... Read More
Melodic Connections Executive Director Betsey Zenk Nuseibh with her son Ollie

Finding Similarities Through Melodic Connections

Written by Sue Schindler   It was the third Tuesday of the month as I walked into the Melodic Connections studio at 6940 Plainfield Road in Silverton for their 5:30-7:00 PM Common Time community event. Common Time is the brainchild of Executive Director Betsey Zenk Nuseibh, to bring communities together ... Read More
Ruth Wacker of Cincinnati wrote a children's book that teaches kids about acceptance and friendship.

Life Lessons From A Triangle

Children have such huge potential for learning, and when they are taught from the earliest of ages to accept and appreciate each other’s differences – even to look beyond those differences to see what they have in common – it is one of life’s greatest lessons. I get so touched ... Read More
Charlie Hines wrote the national campaign song for Luxxotica's One Sight. He shares how his life experiences taught him tenacity.

Life Taught Charlie About Tenacity

Written by Sue Schindler If you live in the Greater Cincinnati area, you’ve probably heard or seen the UC Health commercials with that booming, yet reassuring voice, “They call us the tenacious. The authors of breakthroughs. The ambassadors of hope.” That voice belongs to Lebanon, Ohio’s Charlie Hines. A talented ... Read More
Jessica Mitsch and Grace Brecht at Mount Notre Dame High School in Cincinnati co-chair a community service project working with students who have autism at The Children's Home of Cincinnati.

These Students Are BEYOUtiful

When you were beginning high school, was a reason for your being super excited for it to begin because it meant you could be involved with and surrounded by peers who value community service? Jessica Mitsch and Grace Brecht, juniors at Mount Notre Dame High School in Cincinnati, were. Helping ... Read More
Doris Schnetzer is a Cincinnati artist who wants people to feel joy when they see it.

Doris Wants Her Art To Help Souls Sing

Through her acrylic painting, Doris Schnetzer says, she helps soul sing. Doris calls her art, medicine paintings, because she thinks of them as a wellness tool. Her intention when she sits down with brush in her hand is to help people reach a goal, ease the burden of a health ... Read More
Vicki Brown Hoppe, Sharonville Council’s first woman president, is the smile behind Sharonville, Ohio.

The Smile Behind Sharonville

At age 14, Sharonville Council's First Woman President was running into burning buildings as part of her Explorer Firefighter training. Sue Schindler has known and respected Vicki Brown Hoppe for a long time, and wanted to share some of Vicki’s story. Below is Sue’s words…. The Smile Behind Sharonville It’s ... Read More
Sue Schindler and Lisa Desatnik

Welcome Sue Schindler, To GTGA!

I am thrilled to announce that my dear friend Sue Schindler is going to be contributing to Good Things Going Around!  Sue has such a special, giving heart. We first met many years ago when we both worked for an organization called the Inclusion Network, that promoted the inclusion of ... Read More
Alex and Hannah Lehman were 8 when they started the Cincinnati nonprofit, Adopt A Book. They share how this philanthropy has impacted their lives.

Adopt A Book Has Given These Teens Passion

How time has flown!  It was in December of 2011 when Hannah and Alexander (Alex) Laman – with help from their mom, Angela – were eight-year-olds inspired to share their love of reading with children who were less fortunate. They began collecting books from neighbors, community groups, classmates, and family ... Read More
Katie Goodpaster, a volunteer coordinator for the HART in Cincinnati Animal Rescue, shares her passion for dogs

Finding FURever Homes For Dejected Dogs Is Katie's Heart

Katie Goodpaster is one of those people whose heart is beyond measure when it comes to dogs. In fact, we had to reschedule our first get together because she had gotten an emergency call from Kentucky about a dog in dire need of immediate medical attention and she had to ... Read More
quote by Lisa Desatnik on doing what makes you passionate and makes you smile in life

Do What Makes Your Heart Sing

Ask yourself: What is it that makes you passionate, that brings out your smile, that makes your heart sing. Then find a way to make that part of your life. ~ Lisa Desatnik       Read More
Speaking coach Michael Davis of Speaking CPR in Cincinnati shares his inspiration and passion.

Michael Inspires Storytelling

If you have ever gone to a TEDxCincinnati event, you may be familiar with the art and work of Michael Davis without even realizing it. Michael is one of the coaches working with some of the speakers to deliver powerful messages. And audiences typically leave those shows impacted in meaningful ... Read More
Megan Fischer talks about why she created her Greater Cincinnati nonprofit organization, Sweet Cheeks Diaper Bank, for families in poverty.

Sweet Cheeks Is Megan's Calling

Pregnant with her second child, feeling blessed with the path her life had taken her to that point, Megan Fischer was sitting at her work cubicle when she took a quick break to check her Facebook feed. It was that split moment that changed her passion and career forever. A ... Read More
When you shift from expectations of others to finding their strengths, you bring out their best AND your best. A quote from Lisa Desatnik on life.

Shift Your Perspective

  When, instead of expecting others to be who you want them to be, You look for, appreciate And focus on bringing out their strengths. Your shift in perspective will help to bring out the best in others... And yourself. ~ Lisa Desatnik     Read More
Rhonda Moore is retiring as executive director of Pro Seniors. Read about how Pro Seniors in Cincinnati has grown into a nationally recognized advocate for older adults.

During Rhonda Moore's Tenure, Pro Seniors Is Nationally Recognized

After dedicating the past 17 years at the helm of a team of educators and fighters for the rights and quality of life for seniors, Rhonda Moore is preparing for her next chapter – a well deserved retirement. During her tenure, Pro Seniors has grown to become a nationally recognized ... Read More
Caitlin Steininger is co-owner of Cooking with Caitlin, CWC Restaurant and Station Family +BBQ in Cincinnati. Learn more about her in this interview.

Caitlin Is a Mercenary For Food Experience

If you are ever in need of being uplifted, I recommend you stop by the CWC Restaurant or Station Family + BBQ, both in Wyoming, Ohio (a suburb of Cincinnati) and ask if Caitlin Steininger is around. (Caitlin is always at CWC on Sundays and at one of the restaurants ... Read More
Michael DeMaria is a Cincinnati artist who creates large, interactive exhibits. He is a People's Liberty Globe Grant recipient.

Mike Makes Art Come Alive

As a child, I can remember sitting on the floor building layer after layer of walls and floors with playing cards, delicately placing each one until suddenly they all came tumbling down. I too remember lining up dominos, in straight lines and curves, only to watch them one-by-one fall to ... Read More
Melinda Kirk Stenger talks about why she began PetCakes, he first and ONLY organic, microwavable dogtreats that you make at in home in just minutes

Melinda's PetCakes Bring Out Joy In Pets...And People

If you have ever met Melinda Kirk Stenger, you know, she is someone you don’t soon forget.  Her costume of a polka dot apron alone makes you smile head to toe but it is her heart, her zest for life, and her passion that touch you, brighten your day, and ... Read More
Kelli Kurtz of Cincinnati talks about an act of kindness

Kindness Was Their Life Preserver

What does kindness mean to you, and how has it impacted your life? I asked that question of Kelli Kurtz, executive director of institutional advancement at Stephen T. Badin High School (a high school of the Archdiocese of Cincinnati). Her answer reminds us that those random acts of kindness – ... Read More
Shay Baysore, social media coordinator for My Furry Valentine in Cincinnati, talks about why she is passionate about dog and cat adoption.

Shay Has A Heart For Animal Underdogs

Shay Baysore, volunteer social media coordinator for My Furry Valentine, will tell you, she has always been drawn to the underdog, those human and non-human animals who are often overlooked, stigmatized, and expected to fail. She has always believed in their capacity to give, receive, contribute and achieve. “A soul ... Read More
#Kindflash is a group of volunteers in Cincinnati spreading kindness

#Kindflash in Cincinnati Collecting Clothes

Since 2015, local volunteers have developed a January tradition - that of collecting and distributing warm clothing items (hats, gloves, scarves and socks) across dozens of Greater Cincinnati neighborhoods. This year, the group #Kindflash enters its fifth year of distributing thousands of items across 60+ Greater Cincinnati neighborhoods. Collection will ... Read More
Michele Hobbs, owner of Pet Wants in Cincinnati, shares why she and Amanda Broughton teach their children about being kind and helping the homeless.

Why Teaching Kindness To Their Kids Matters

“It's hard to explain to kids that it's a blessing in life to be able to give to others.”  These were the first words shared by Pet Wants co-owner/founder Michele Hobbs (with her wife Amanda Broughton) when she posted about her beautiful family participating in a group that gives to ... Read More
Nick Rose-Stamey shares a message to his students from Elementz in Cincinnati

This Teacher Awakens Souls

Passionate teachers have such power to nurture and empower lives. Like soil, light and water is to seedlings, they are the nourishment from which beautiful blossoms grow. Their greatest satisfaction often comes through watching as hurdles are broken down and dreams take flight. Nick Rose-Stamey is among these life changers. ... Read More
Tammy Wynn is CEO of Angel's Paws pet hospice in Cincinnati

An Angel For Pets

  If you have ever been the giver and recipient of unconditional love from a non-human companion, you may also have come to know the tumultuous pain when that joy is replaced by grief in the face of loss…possibly even anguish as you have had to make what could ... Read More

Joe Wenning Brings History To Life

On September 8, 2018, you’re invited…step back in time to 1788 on a walking tour of Pioneer Cemetery, the oldest cemetery in Hamilton County and the final resting place of many Revolutionary and Civil War veterans and pioneers, where you will hear from historical interpreters in period dress, interact with ... Read More
Carolyn Evans, founder of My Furry Valentine Cincinnati dog and cat adoption event, shares an adoption story from Clermont County Animal Shelter.

Joel: A Dog Adoption Story Of Love

On DOGust Day, a day when we celebrate the birth of adopted dogs whose real birthdays may be unknown, I’d like to share with you his very special story. His life, his spirit and his journey while here on earth so moved the people in whose care he found experienced ... Read More
Jason Wesche began the Hannah Strong Foundation in Cincinnati to help children who have been abused or neglected, after the loss of his daughter Hannah Wesche

Remembering Hannah: #HannahStrong

One day. One moment. Their life, their purpose changed forever. They were a close-knit family of four – single father Jason Wesche and his three darling girls -Hannah, Rachael, and Kaitlyn - who treasured life’s simple pleasures. Many moments were shared laughing and playing together. Helping and bringing smiles to ... Read More

Enjoy The Small Steps

It was nearly three years ago when a beautiful young woman, who, at 21, was just reaching her adulthood, was taken from this world too soon. Katy Schindler got so much joy out of riding horses, strumming a guitar and playing baseball. Her face wore a huge smile every time ... Read More

Steve Inspires People Passion

He has been called an iconic leader, a positive disruptor, and a passionate people person who has inspired probably tens, if not, hundreds of thousands directly and indirectly across the globe to put more heart, more connectivity, and more appreciation into their work, their relationships, and their lives. Steve Browne, ... Read More

Through Running, Scot Finds Joy

Guest post This past weekend in Cincinnati, Scot Howell was one of thousands who lined the streets, participating in the 20th annual Flying Pig Marathon. Everyone has their own purpose for their long hours of training and mental preparation that culminates in a 26+ mile run. Scot shares why he ... Read More

TEDxCincinnati Sparks Conversation

BaddBob is part of a Florida group of bikers whose passion is empowering and standing up for children who have been victims of abuse. Through her poetry, Tiffany Bowden brings her listeners back in time to the innocence of childhood, a time when humanity was uncomplicated and when embracing difference ... Read More

Human Values Festival This Weekend

Looking for an opportunity to inspire your children to do good or to meet others who are focused on the good in this world? This Sunday, April 29, the Institute of Sathya Sai Education will be hosting a free community and family-centric Festival dedicated to the practice of five core ... Read More

Cincinnati Film Director Has Simple Request

I have a very simple request, one that will no doubt make you smile while you are at it. Adorable three-year-old Gia Lopez was not supposed to live due to a genetic disorder known as spinal muscular atrophy. But, today, she is flying with a dragon and starring in her ... Read More

Kevin Hall Broke The Mold In Golf

Each of us has a fire deep inside - a flame that, with kindling can burn bright, its heat fueling our pursuit for something that makes us feel alive. Kevin Hall’s fire was lit more than 25 years ago, after school one day on the Avon Fields Golf Course. He ... Read More

Sue Reminds Us To See Possible Greatness

Sue Schindler remembers the moment as if it was yesterday. She was eight years old and she was terrified. Sitting beside her was her dad who was about to call her third-grade teacher. For a young daughter of a father who was known to raise his voice now and then, ... Read More

Curiosity Inspires This Art Museum Exec

“So many people inspire me every day. I get inspired by the smallest thing. I am a really curious person so anyone who is embracing who they are and following where their curiosity leads them inspires me.”    ~Emily Holtrop How cool is that, to be inspired by curiosity every ... Read More

Bobby Harrison, You've Got This!

Today, as I am writing this, my dear friend Bobby Harrison is preparing himself to go to the hospital where he will have to swallow 15 pills so toxic that he can’t touch them to human skin and will need to flush the toilet three times after using it to ... Read More

This Dog Rescue Run Is Her Passion

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I met Lori Gerring several years back through her work on the Paw Joggers Rescue Run. Billie Mendoza, founder and owner of Paw Joggers, whom I have known for many years had expanded her capacity to help pets by forming a nonprofit organization to organize an annual race that would benefit local rescues. And Lori has been Billie’s ‘right hand woman’ since.

The Paw Joggers Rescue Run is this coming Sunday, October 15th, from  8:30am-12:00pm with the race beginning at 10:00am. At Sharon Woods Park (11450 Lebanon Rd; 45241) Competitive Runners, Recreational Runners, Walkers and Runners/Walkers with (well-behaved) dogs invited to participate!

The Race includes a choice of challenging 5k (chip timed event) and a relatively flat 2k course. Proceeds will go to dozens of Cincinnati area dog and cat rescue organizations.

Paw Joggers Rescue Run now includes a Saturday Expo from Noon to 4 pm with a variety of vendors. It will be held at the MARCH FIRST BREWING (7885 Kemper Rd; 45249).

The Paw Joggers Animal Community Fund (Paw Joggers ACF) is a nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting the local animal welfare community through events, awareness, and monetary donations.  The Paw Joggers ACF and its events are powered solely by Paw Joggers Run volunteers.

Lori shared this story of why this Race is her passion.

“Several years ago, my New Year’s resolution was to “do something outside of my comfort zone” each month.  I haven’t always kept the resolution after that year, but helping with the PJRR was most definitely outside of my comfort zone:  I hate asking for donations and cold-calling and I had no idea what goes into a 5K.  The first year was, to put it mildly, a learning experience.

I am involved with the PJRR because I was there when Billie Mendoza decided to form a nonprofit and organize the 5K, based on the Rusty Ball model of beneficiary participation.  A dedicated race participant; Billie took care of the race details. I was the “Communications Coordinator”, contacting vendors, sponsors, volunteers, and promoting the new 5K/2K, last year I added the EXPO to my duties.

The animal welfare community is important to me.  My first dog, Rocket the Black Lab, was from a backyard breeder.  I didn’t know any better.  Several rescues wouldn’t let us adopt because we hadn’t raised a dog and didn’t have an established relationship with a veterinarian.  We took Rocket to rescue group fundraisers because it was fun to be out with him, where we learned about the work these groups do.  Several years later we adopted another Black Lab, Turbo, from a rescue.  After Rocket passed, we adopted Flash (From Elvis Presley TCB in a Flash), also from a rescue.

My first rescue ‘job’ was with Kyle New Hope Animal Rescue.  Dr. Kyle was such an incredible help with Rocket that it seemed like a good way to thank her.    Other volunteer work has been as a Therapy Dog Team with Turbo (and Rocket) for the Alliance of Therapy Dogs; projects, including grant reviews, for the Grey Muzzle Organization; and minor help with the United Pet Fund.

But the PJRR has a special place in my life.  I’m a huge believer in the importance of walking with your dog (for all sorts of reasons) and the PJRR promotes just that.  It’s also a way to help a variety of rescues.  I’ve met so many people dedicated to helping pets.  I’ve learned that pets help people in return so it’s a worth-while cause.  And selfishly it makes me a better person because I push myself to get things done.”

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Rachael Moore Sees Art As Discovery

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Rachael Moore will tell you, she is not an artist but she is a huge fan of the arts. She used to be what she calls ‘that typical visitor’ who would pop into museums during her trips to admire art, but really, not giving it much more thought than whether or not she liked a piece of work.

Rachael Moore of Cincinnati Art Underground talks about how art is discoveryNow, she told me, “I see art as creations by people who lived and breathed, and were inspired. Art just comes alive and is constantly evolving. I can see the story behind it. It is a journey of experimentation for artists who have studied with their minds or hands or philosophical movement.”

Before her metamorphosis, Rachael was on track for a corporate career. She was three years into law school when she moved with her husband to London for several years, and then moved to Cincinnati in 2011 when her husband took a job with GE Aviation. Rachael got involved with the arts a year later with a volunteer position for the Constella Music Festival.

Her transition had begun. Rachael remembers a conversation with a group of local artists. “They needed a chance to show their work, but also I saw such a passion here for people who want to see what Cincinnati artists are doing.”

That is when her vision began to crystallize.

In 2014 Rachael organized several pop-up shows in Over-the-Rhine; and today, she runs an 800 square foot boutique contemporary gallery called Cincinnati Art Underground. Each month it features the work of diverse artists known locally and nationally, with artist talks and events.  Coming up in October, her gallery will feature David Gerena aka KAOS, a graffiti artist who got his start in New York City in the 1980s, when graffiti was considered an ‘underground culture’.

“I like surprising our visitors. I want Cincinnati Art Underground to be a gallery where there is always something more to discover,” Rachael said.

 

 

The Best Version Of Who We Are

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The other day, Thomas Courtney and I met for coffee and he shared a story with me that I thought everyone could benefit from hearing, so I asked him to write about it as a guest post, which is below.  Thomas has created and is in the process of bringing to the airwaves, It’s a Good Life – a television show that informs, inspires and provides insight on living a better life.  

 

Thomas Courtney talks about inspiration through possivityWhen we wake up in the morning we should say to ourselves, “Today, I am going to make this day, the best day, I have ever had in my life. “

A couple of years ago I was speaking at an education and computer technology conference to a group of  K12 through college software writers and developers about the power of making an impact in our communities and our world at large.  I shared about children who are living in poverty and homelessness; and about how the number one way we can have the greatest impact on life around us is by being the best version of who we are, right now, in this moment.  Not a version of anyone else.

In my conference speech, I told the story of how I would sit and talk with children in their classroom and listen to their stories of what they wanted to be when they grew up.  Many of those students were kids who had some behavioral issues stemming from their challenges of living a life that was much more difficult than what the average person was living.

I get very passionate when I speak of possibility and what we can do to make a difference in whatever way we can, big or small.   I am passionate because I believe in possibility.  And when I spoke to those children who believed they had no hope and no place to turn and no one to turn to and no way out, their eyes lit up like Christmas trees when I told them there is always a way out and a way up.

I said to the children, “In life, moments will come along when you think. ‘I have no chance of getting over this hurdle’.”   I told them, “You will think you believe that you do not have what it takes to be whatever it is that you want to be.  I am here to tell you that simply is not true.  You will be spending the rest of your life constructing your life.  Self-construction never stops.

“There will be times when you think you are stuck.  And you may likely be.  And there will be times when you will be afraid of the unknown.  And it is going to feel like you aren’t capable of taking that next step.   And you will wonder if you are in charge, or is life in charge of you.    Most likely, it will be a little of both.   However, if you build a good value system, stick to it, and follow your heart this will give you a foundation to take leaps you may never think you can take.  And most importantly, be who you are.  Do not try to be anyone else.  And be the very best version of who you are.”

When I finished my story, the audience was motionless. Eyes had blank stares and were frozen in time.  You could hear a pin drop.  Suddenly a hand went up. The woman had this to say, “I can appreciate how passionate you are and the work that you are doing with these children, but I am not in your line of work.  I get up every day and do the same thing over and over again, sitting at my computer typing.  I have very little to do with anyone else, little alone making a great impact.  I think I do my job well, but I wouldn’t necessarily say I am making a difference.”

I briefly paused, thinking about what was said before giving an answer. “Well, let’s go back to what I said to the children about being the best version of you,” I told her, asking how she begins her days.

“I get up after hitting the snooze three times, chuckle, fix my coffee, race to the shower, and may or may not have time for breakfast, and run to my car trying to hurry to make sure I’m not late.  Then I realize I am about out of gas and need to stop and fill up my gas tank on my way into the office.,” she told me as the audience laughed. “And it really depends on how late I was out the night before,” she added.

Then I asked her, “Tell me how you feel about your work?,” and she explained, “I love my job.  I make a good living.  I am doing what I went to school for.  This is what I do.”

I paused again for a moment, and then asked, “Do you believe the picture you just painted for me is the best you can be?  Do you believe you are being the best version of who you are based on what I explained to the children?”

She was quiet.

I went on, “I do not mean to sound like I have the answers for you and your life.  But hear me out for a moment.  What if you believed the work that you do, which is creating and building software for K12 through college level as having a serious and critical impact on not only the lives of the children and young adults you build this software for, but on the world?  What if you believed the decisions that you make every day in your life impacted the decisions and thought processes of every individual that your work project touches every day and even on different time zones?   Would that change how you see yourself and the work that you do every day?”

I could see her mental wheels turning.  I could see she was now thinking about a bigger picture.  Sometimes, what we all need is to get clarity on what is most important.  Sometimes we all need to see that in its simplest form we play a much bigger role in this hamster wheel of life than we would like to think.   Self-construction never stops.

We have 86,400 hours in a day to work until we retire, if we retire and depending on when you graduate from high school.  But just for conversation sake these are the hours we have.   This is time.  We should ask ourselves, “Who do we want to be and are we being our very best?  Is it the best version of who we are?”

Life is fleeting.  Time is invaluable.  And since we are so limited then I’d think we would want to spend it becoming the best of who we are, giving the best of which we are, not only for the world, but most importantly for ourselves.   The world is our stage.  We might as well choose to strive to live happy, develop and perfect our humanity, and celebrate being the best of who we are.  Today, I am going to make this day the best day I have ever had in my life.

  • Thomas Courtney
    Reach Thomas by calling 513.616.0407  or emailing thomas@itsagoodlifeinc.com

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Portraying Souls Through Art

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Jing was 16 months old, just weeks ahead of playing make believe, running, jumping, and exploring. Only those developmental milestones she was on target for reaching, had to be delayed. The course of her life was about to make a detour that would alter her journey for a very long time.

Jing was born to parents who lived in a rural village of southwest China where central electricity and modern plumbing were unavailable. Meals were cooked over an open fire, that one fateful day burned much of the newly mobile infant’s body. By the time Jing celebrated her second birthday, she had already undergone three surgeries.

Her story traveled to the United States via the media and internet, and eventually led her to Cincinnati, one week past her second birthday in 2012, where she has been living with a host family and receiving treatment from Shriner’s Hospital for Children – Cincinnati.

Her injuries caused airway obstruction which made it difficult to stay asleep for longer than 90 minutes at a time.  She had lost vision in one eye, and the Chinese hospital had fused the lid.  Jing’s mouth was so contracted from scar tissue that she could only consume bottles of formula.  Over the next year, Kevin Yakuboff M.D., FACS, FAAPS, surgically released Jing’s mouth and neck, which allowed her to enjoy solid food for the first time.  (Meatballs were a favorite!)  He corrected her eyelid for a more symmetric and balanced appearance.   By her third birthday, Christopher Gordon M.D., FACS, FAAP surgically altered her jaw, a major advancement which opened her airways and allowed her to sleep through the night for the first time.

An ocean separating them, when it had become clear that it was in Jing’s best interest to stay in Cincinnati near to her medical team, her parents wanted that for their daughter, and Jing’s host family became her adopted family.

Enter Portrait of a Soul

It is children like Jing who give Cincinnati philanthropists Lee and Sue Schaefer purpose. Four years ago they founded Portrait of a Soul, a nonprofit organization which partners with elite artists to create beautiful, fine art portraits of children with craniofacial conditions or other differences.

“For a child, having a portrait of him or herself, tells them ‘you matter, you are important’,” Lee told me. “We had a little girl who looked at her portrait and said she couldn’t believe an artist touched that portrait 100,000 times just for her. Most of the kids want their scar showing but don’t always have to. We just want it to be a positive, uplifting experience for them. The fact that someone cares about them is what they walk away with.”

The first step is meeting with the artist to make sure he/she has a “heart for the project and the child”, something top on the Schaefer’s priority list. Once artists have been paired with a child, they meet and typically the artist will take a lot of photos before going into the studio to illustrate their interpretation of their subject’s soul. Children do not see the finished result until an unveiling event – usually some 4 to 6 months later. It is a process that forms special bonds. Lee and Sue, who have no children of their own, have been to numerous high school graduations, birth parties, plays and other celebrations.

Holly Schapker painted two portraits, one of which was just unveiled at the Down Syndrome Association of Greater Cincinnati. “It is interesting that for so many years, I have been building my skillset and it feels like all my skills have been for this purpose. I don’t see a higher purpose as an artist,” she told me.

Jing loves art and reading, and panda bears. And, now, after the unveiling of her portrait by Tracey Ellis-Haynes at Shriner’s Hospital, the world will know that too (as a high quality reproduction will hang at Shriner’s Hospital and Jing has the original). “I love it because it has my stuffed panda, Xi Xi, in it. Then everybody can see her. I am proud because my artist did a great job,” she told me.

I asked Lee how their nonprofit has impacted him and his wife. “We are very humbled by it,” he said. We don’t want the project to be about Sue and me. This is our way of giving back. We have gotten more out of it than we ever thought. It is the neatest thing that we have ever done.”

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Anita’s Gift Saved Howard’s Life

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For many years Local 12’s Troubleshooter Howard Ain was the problem solver for thousands – those he assisted first hand and many more who benefited from his advocacy through watching his television segments.

And, as it goes in life, you never know when your role will change from the giver to the recipient. You may have heard by now that Howard was battling a When Local 12 Troubleshooter Howard Ain needed a kidney transplant, one of his producers donated one of hers.chronic kidney disease, and like millions of others across the United States, he was in need of a kidney transplant. (A close friend of mine is among those millions too, and also received a kidney transnplant.) It was only the end of June when his story became widespread news via his longtime employer and just like that, those people who benefited from his work wanted to help.

Many were tested to see if they were a match. Ultimately, his living donor was a producer whose Local 12 newscasts shared his stories for all those years. I’ve known Anita Bray Farrell for a while through social media. I’ve seen her big heart toward animals. Now her generosity has saved a human life, the life of a respected and dear colleague – and friend.

In a news story on Local 12, I saw this conversation:

“Hard to believe that I could get my life back,” said Howard.

“The more I thought about it, he’s helped a lot of people, for decades, literally I think he’s saved some people from financial ruin, and I wanted to pay it back a little bit,” said Anita.

“My biggest fear is that there would be a complication for Howard, not for me,” said Anita.

“I’ve known Anita for years, she is a woman of uncommon grace,” said Howard.

Howard has a little bit of that fear, too, but what do you say to a person that saves your life? (from Liz Bonis)

“You know what she said to me? Because you know, the producers are always saying ‘can I give it a little bit more time, a little more time, my story is going to run a little long’ while she said it’s the first time a producer has ever given a reporter more time, okay I’ll give you more time and it’s not minutes, it’s years,” said Howard.

There is a lesson in here for all of us.

When I spoke with Anita, this is what she told me, “If you are healthy, I would definitely encourage people to do it. It is some time off work, some pain, the testing process is involved but something to consider. Is well worth it to save a life and give something back.”

To learn more about being a kidney donor, please visit this link for the National Kidney Foundation.

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