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In Mentoring Month, An Example How Why Mentors Matter
Guest Post from Nathan Knipper
I met my Big Brother Mike Hardig when I was 10 years old. My mom was a single parent and I was an only child, so she thought having a “Big Brother” would be a great thing for me. She was right, and Mike was a great Big Brother—I only wish I’d known that at the time.
Now that I’m an adult and can look back, Mike was the important male figure I needed in my life. At first, he was just the guy who would pick me up on weekend afternoons and take me to sporting events—most of them I had never experienced before. It was always a new adventure (honestly, I don’t know how he came up with the things he did!). Then, there started to be structure in my world–a world that had very little of it, even if that structure was only on the Saturday or Sunday we were together.
January is National Mentoring Month, and I’m sharing my experience of having a mentor as an example of why we all need to help kids in our community.
I am convinced today that without Mike’s guidance—and that structure—I would’ve made some poor choices in my teens. I didn’t always make the best choices, but they most certainly would have been worse. Mike was a successful salesman at the time and that allowed me to see I could make something of myself if I put my mind to it. He led by example. Other than Mike, the people giving me guidance were friends whose guidance could be problematic, because they didn’t know any better themselves.
Mike and I stopped getting together when I was about 14. I remember feeling I was too old to have a Big Brother, but know now I just didn’t appreciate what I had. I hope he’d be proud to know that I’ve been fortunate enough to continue down a career path similar to his, that I’ve been working at Total Quality Logistics for 14 years , and am now the Vice President of Sales,
Adults in the community must step up to help kids. When kids have a Big Brother or Big Sister, they gain a friend, a confidant, a partner to help guide them through some of the toughest times in those important early years.
If we can set them up for success, show them how do be successful, then they see they can achieve it. We all need help in life and mentoring a child pays dividends beyond measure.
I know my Big Brother still lives in Cincinnati, but I’ve been hesitant to contact him because I worry he believes I didn’t appreciate the time he spent with me, the lessons he taught me. So I’ll say this: Mike Hardig, I sincerely appreciate all the sacrifices you made to be my Big Brother. I only wish I’d been a better Little Brother, but believe it or not, you had a huge hand in my success in life after we went our separate ways. For that, I thank you. Your sacrifices made a lifelong impression.
For more about Big Brothers Big Sisters of Greater Cincinnati, please visit their site: http://www.bigsforkids.org.
Cincinnati Earth Day Celebration Seeking Logo Designs
Calling all young Greater Cincinnati artists.
The Greater Cincinnati Earth Coalition is inviting seventh through 12th-grade students to compete in the Cincinnati Earth Day Celebration logo design contest, which will be used for the 43nd Earth Day Celebration at Sawyer Point on April 20.
The Cincinnati Earth Day Celebration inspires awareness and appreciation for the Earth’s natural environment, while showcasing individuals and organizations that protect and promote the natural beauty of our region.
Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky seventh through 12th-grade students may submit their Earth Day inspired logo designs, for a chance to win over $100 in prizes and publicity. The winning design will appear on the event website, t-shirts, social media, posters and other promotional materials.
There are no color or design limitations, however, each entry must be an original piece of art work and be submitted by Friday, February 1. Entries should be submitted in two forms, a hard copy on 8 ½ x 11 paper mailed to the Greater Cincinnati Earth Coalition, 4015 Executive Park Drive, Suite 300, Cincinnati, Ohio 45241 and a electronic copy submitted as a .jpeg emailed to contest@cincinnatiearthday.org.
Please contact Sarah Fortin at 513-733-0004 with questions or visit www.cincinnatiearthday.com.
About the Greater Cincinnati Earth Coalition
The Greater Cincinnati Earth Coalition is a community of nonprofit organizations, businesses, government agencies and individuals from the Ohio-Kentucky-Indiana tri-state region who work cooperatively and actively to promote the beauty and environmental quality of the tri-state area. Visit www.cincinnatiearthday.com for more information on the event.
Cincinnati Philanthropist Roger Grein Is An Inspiration
I’d like to tell you a little about the man with whom I have been spending a lot of time working with these past few weeks. His mother used to call him a ‘Gift from God” and I think she was pretty intuitive.
Roger Grein was recently honored nationally and locally with distinguished honors for his lifelong generosity and focus on strengthening lives and communities. He was selected from 19,000 full time volunteers as the National Father George Mader Award by the Catholic Volunteer Network. Named after the Network’s founder, the annual Award is given to an organization or individual that encourages lay men and women to serve others locally, nationally, or internationally. Grein was also named 2012 Philanthropist of the Year from the Association of Fundraising Professionals Greater Cincinnati Chapter.
The Man Behind The Awards
At 70, Roger is a simple man. He still lives in the modest house in Lockland where he spent many years of his life and comes to work every day in a nondescript building on Benson Street in Reading.
But inside those walls, inspiration comes alive. To the right of his desk are rows of softball trophies – some so tall they reach higher than my knee (And those, he says, only represent a fraction of the trophies he had. He donates them to charities.) Each trophy represents another milestone in his 36 year coaching career, a journey that led teams to world championships and travels to Hawaii, Mexico, Sweden and the former Soviet Union.
All of that is from a man who, in school never came close to earning a spot on sport teams. Roger was asked to chalk the base lines, collect towels and fetch water instead.
You see, Roger was never expected to excel – physically or mentally. He was six months old when Frank and Thelma took him home from St. Joseph Infant Home. His birth certificate read ‘disnormal baby.’ He might not walk, the doctors said. He might not talk. And he might never know them.
Thelma would have none of that. In her eyes, her son could do anything. “Heal-toe,” she used to say. She walked her son everywhere, made him study, helped him find summer jobs, taught him about giving back, and ensured he was included. She expected from her son what other mothers expect from their sons – great things.
“The only time I realized I was different was when someone asked me why I walked the way I do,” Roger told me.
By the time he was around 11, he had already started a lawn business and joined an investment club. He used to get out of class to check the stock market, he remembers.
Roger studied finance at the University of Cincinnati, earning his MBA, but even with two degrees work was hard to come by. So he got back into the lawn cutting business and started handing out business cards, asking customers if they needed tax service.
That first year, Roger did 25 returns and his mother typed them up. By the third year he was doing 345 returns and had become the tax commissioner in three municipalities. In 1970, he was doing 850 returns with a staff of eight.
Unknown, however, even to family was that in his success, Roger was secretly giving away thousands…at one point, giving over half a million each year. In 1999 he gave Northern Kentucky University $500,000 for softball player scholarships and to improve the girls’ softball field, and for students with disabilities.
It was about 12 years ago, after learning of an NKU philanthropy program for students, sponsored by the Mayerson Foundation, that he vowed to expand the idea. That promise led to his meeting with Father Michael Graham at Xavier University to start a similar program there, which led to 34 colleges and universities embracing his philanthropy education model through a program that is managed by Ohio Campus Compact. And, now to over 2000 local teens engaged in becoming young philanthropists through Magnified Giving.
The vision of Magnified Giving is for every high school student in America, beginning with Greater Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky, to someday have an opportunity to learn firsthand how to be generous and wise philanthropists through hands-on experience. Participating school groups are challenged to determine how they want to invest up to $2000 in a nonprofit.
The organization’s fourth year is seeing a record number of schools and students involved. Over 2000 students in 36
Magnified Giving programs (35 school-based and one community-based) are researching hundreds of nonprofit agencies, sending over 300 grant invitation letters, and will be awarding grants collectively totally nearly $60,000 at the 2012-2013 Award Event, scheduled for April 30 at McAuley High School.
Greater Cincinnati Students Doing Good – A+ For Kindness
It is so wonderful to see young people being encouraged to make a difference in their world. More than 1200 Greater Cincinnati high school students from over 100 schools attended last October’s Anthony Munoz Foundation’ s Youth Leadership Seminar where they were challenged to come up with a community service project to spread kindness. Their ideas made such an impact.
One Example
Students at Ursuline Academy already make sandwiches that they donate for distribution through a local shelter and they have a club that knits scarves for those who need warmth. Now, each of those recipients will be getting a ‘love note’ attached to the gift that students made as part of their Youth Leadership Seminar project. It is all about uplifting those who can benefit from nurturing encouragement. I just love it! And by the way, I am told this was totally student driven.
Cincinnati’s Bi-Okoto Celebrates Culture At Heritage Festival
Established in August 1994, nonprofit Bi-Okoto Dance & Drum Theatre has been educating audiences locally and around the globe about Africa through language, music, and movement.
Its 2012 Heritage Festival is an opportunity to gather people of different races, ages, and cultural backgrounds to participate in a variety of master classes with nationally and international known guests artists; shop the African Market of products and foods and the evening culminates in an exhilarating live performance of West African music, songs and dance.
At the Bi-Okoto Cultural Centre, 7030 Reading Road, festival activities include:
Traditional African drum and dance workshops presented by the following master drummers & dancers
- Hamidou Kovoigui Guinean Dance 9:00-10:30am
- Praise Ekeng Nigerian Dance 10:45-12:15pm
- Mouhammed Sene Senegalese Drumming 12:30 – 2:00pm
- Kayode Idris Yoruba Orisa Songs & Movement 1:00 – 2:30pm
- Titos Sompa Congolese Dance 2:15 – 3:45pm
- Elizabeth Hammond-Apea Ghanaian Dance 4:00 – 5:30pm
At the Woodward High School, 7005 Reading Road:
The evening performance will feature our guest artists sharing stage with Bi-Okoto’s own professional and Okoto Kekere pre-professional artists to highlight the unique and beautifully diverse traditional and contemporary arts that Africa offers. You are sure to love the adventure to West Africa and back! Arrive early to shop and stay late for the “Split-the-Pot Raffle” and more!
Festival Pricing:
- Workshop classes: $20/person/class ($10/child)
- Performance tickets: $20/person in advance. After December 1st: $25/person
- Group discounts: ETA/Start members, Greater Cincinnati Dance Alliance members, dance schools, churches and/or groups of 5 or more participating in (2) or more classes will enjoy 20% off. Performance discount: Buy 4 get 1 free!
- Need Tickets: Performance and workshop tickets can be purchased at www.cincytickets.com or in person at Bi-Okoto Cultural Centre, 7030 Reading Road, Suite 662, 45237. For more information, please visit their website bi-okoto.com.